SUSIE LAROUCI &
FELIX JOUANNEAU

As Gabor Maté has noted, people have two fundamental needs, the need for authenticity and the need for belonging. When these needs clash, belonging often takes precedence over authenticity. However, in healthy, supportive relationships, balancing both creates something magical. Susie and Felix seem to be a great example of this magical balance: they remain connected without losing their individuality, supporting each other without control, and pursuing their own paths. They choose each other out of clarity and genuine affection, not need. Their story reminds us that the connection between two people doesn’t have to be all-consuming to be meaningful. True freedom to be oneself is what sustains a lasting partnership.

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Felix Jouanneau @felixjouanneau
Susie Larouci @susie_balzout

How did Susie’s running change things for you both?

Susie: It was quite a big shift I remember: 5:45 a.m. wake-ups, long training blocks, plenty of travelling. I became less available as my focus shifted more and more towards my newfound passion. We had to rebuild routines.

Felix: Susie used to help me more on the business side of things, like answering emails, VAT, logistics and other administration, so my focus was on crafting itself. With Susie welcoming running into her life, I needed to adjust and focus on the less creative stuff as well. Now she’s more of a mirror to me, always asking the right questions, which helps me maintain focus on the next steps to take and keeps my perspective on the future.

Susie is super supportive in and about your business, where do you contribute in Susie’s life?

Felix: Here is where my culinary background comes in handy. I will cook almost every meal, run with her sometimes, keep an eye on recovery, and back her crazy ideas. I’m adaptable with schedules. I’ll be chief crew for her Cocodona adventure, for example, organising aid, shoes, … and helping where needed. I won’t attend every single event she’s doing, but I’ll always be there for the big ones.

Susie: He’s incredibly supportive with my mood swings, nerves, and the logistics of our lives. We’ve learned how to make quality time count within our busy schedules.

Both having your own interests and giving each other a lot of freedom. How much time do you spend together?

Susie: We see each other daily but often in short blocks. We share four dinners on an average week, set one intentional evening together, and keep Sundays sacred for special plans and hanging out. We often talk on the phone and keep each other in the loop, during our daily commutes. We also schedule two proper date nights a month. It works great for us, we feel connected and prioritise each other when we feel the gap. Open communication is key.

Susie, aside from running, what fills up your day?

Susie: I work in the contemporary art market, filled with people from a particular part of society; there’s often little diversity in those spaces, and I feel it’s important that I’m there taking part in those groups. I worked for Sotheby’s and other high-end galleries. Most of my time I spend managing the logistical side of business after people buy the art from the gallery. It was a true eye-opener working with people who can spend so much money. It’s a special yet super interesting world. I just started working at a smaller gallery where I hope to bring my expertise and help them grow.

You also mentioned a running project focused on Africa. Can you elaborate a bit more?

Susie:It is a social-impact initiative to build bridges between runners in Europe (especially the African diaspora) and events/communities across African countries. The NYC Marathon doesn’t need more help, but a half-marathon in Cairo, for example, might. We’d channel people and resources where they can genuinely grow participation and therefore the economy, supporting women, kids, or elders through accessible events (from 1-mile races to a marathon). It’s about connection, inclusion, and removing middlemen. Kenya is already a hub, but we want to expand our stories and support in places that aren’t yet on the global map, while being sensitive to local norms and challenges.

How has running reshaped your community/people you hang with?

Susie:It’s a super inclusive community, which is a true blessing. Long runs, especially, strip away masks; you can’t keep up a persona when you’re tired. It’s a direct way to connect across language, identity, or background. That authenticity is rare and powerful.

If you had to name one thing, what is the one thing you want people to take with them after taking the time to read this piece?

Susie:We are both working towards lives that balance independence and partnership, allowing each other to excel in our own way without compromising our relationship. Our focus in life is centred around clarity, honesty, and support.

Felix:Live with purpose, and handmade things exist to be used, repaired, and kept. Our relationship is for life, just like the boots I make.

Production & Styling Valérie Cottyn

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